I’ve been with my fiancée for a while now, and I genuinely care about her. I spend money on her regularly—gifts, dinners, trips, whatever she needs. She even has my card saved on her phone for convenience, and I never made a big deal about it.

But recently something bothered me. I asked her to order me some Uber Eats when I wasn’t feeling well, and she straight up said, “I don’t like spending money on a man.” That hit me weird.

She’s never really bought me anything, even small gestures. I’m not asking for expensive gifts or anything, but the one-sidedness is starting to get to me.

Am I overthinking this, or is this a red flag? Should this be something I seriously consider before getting married? I’d really appreciate honest advice.

We boarded our plane yesterday, and the window seat was wet. We wiped it up, no big deal. As we went to buckle, the seat belt was wet and also sticky. Ok fine, asked for some napkins and we wiped it off. After sitting for a few minutes, we noticed a smell, and it was straight up barf.

The side of the seat and the wall was covered with puke. We asked an attendant for wipes, and they offered to clean it and didn't make a big deal about it.

After a few more minutes, it was bad, like really bad. We tried to reposition the air outlets to help, but couldn't find a solution. The flight was 100% full, and vouchers were given out pre-boarding to volunteers. The attendants reported there wasn't another seat available. We tried to deal with it best as we could.

Of course during service, we found puke on the tray table that had some "form" to it. Ok, this was as bad as it'll get. Then the entertainment system stopped working - the screen just sat on a "Loading" screen. The attendants were able to send a reset command to the seat-back system to get the screen working again. That was a positive note.

The attendants were very helpful and apologetic of the situation, but there was nothing they could do. An attendant asked me to fill out a form on a smartphone for an "FPOC" but they warned me it wasn't going to make up for it.

It certainly didn't. Two $25 vouchers for travel.

I found this happy little family on a retaining wall in my garden. I tried to google them but I can't tell if they're flying ants or termites. Please help and advise, lmao. The retaining wall isn't connected to my house but is close enough for this to be terrifying.

Also, I took bug spray to them and a lot of them died in case that helps.

“Hacker says they infiltrated and got access to ICE deportation data includes flight records and passenger lists. The hacker sent 404 Media a copy of the data, which is sorted into folders dated everyday from January 19 through May 1.”

So i’m 19 and a first-year university student. Last week in my anthropology class, the professor was lecturing on different belief systems and made a joke about ancestor veneration, saying it was like having dead relatives watching you like spiritual Netflix. Most of the class laughed, but I was silent stoned cause i don’t think its funny at all.

I’m half japanese and in my family honoring ancestors is something taken seriously. We visit graves, make offerings, and participate in traditions like Obon. It’s something I grew up with and hearing it reduced to a joke made me really uncomfortable. I didn’t make a scene and just quietly left after that and later on, the professor emailed me saying my behavior was disruptive and I should’ve brought concerns to office hours. I responded explaining my perspective, but now I’m wondering if I overreacted. Some classmates support me, others say I’m too sensitive. I wasn’t trying to be dramatic. I just didn’t feel respected you know. AITA?